The Best Man's Speech - A guide to the speech given by the best man

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The Best Man's Speech

For many people taking on the role of the Best Man, the Best Man speech will be a most daunting duties. Try to make the best man's speech funny, or at least amusing is possible. Remember that you are replying to a toast to the bridesmaids (proposed by the groom), so express simple sentiments about your feelings for the day and conclude with a toast to the bride and groom.

If you feel you'd like to include some jokes or anecdotes, consider these guidelines:

Avoid referring to anything that the bride does not know about or past relationships of either the bride or groom as this could cause unnecessary injury.

Consider using an anecdote about something that has happened during the day, or a comment that one of the party made to you earlier.

Suggested content for a best man's speech is given below:

Thank the groom for his toast on behalf of the bridesmaids and for any gifts.
Compliment the groom. Brides will get a lot of the attention at weddings so redress the balance a little!
Try to amuse the guests with anecdotes about the groom's past misdemeanours or jokes at the groom's expense but steer clear of anything that might embarrass the groom unnecessarily. And do not upset the bride!
Read messages received from absent friends and family, establishing the relationship and locality of the sender.

End your speech with a toast that is complimentary to the bride, and wish the bride and groom future happiness together.

For further details of the duties of the Best Man see out Best Man guide

Books and DVDs
 
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The Best Man's Handbook: A Guy's Guide from Bachelor Party to the Toast